If Your Kid is Shy…
Here are two quick tips to help your shy kid open up.
1. Let them know it’s okay to be shy
Our society places a ton of value on being outgoing. It also places a lot of judgment on being shy.
Shy kids are often made even more shy because they feel like something is wrong with them.
So, the first step is to let your child know that it’s OKAY to be shy. Let them know nothing is wrong with them, and they’re fine the way they are.
Shyness is often linked with insecurity. So if your kid feels secure with him / herself – they’ll be one step closer to opening up.
2. Set Goals & Give them rewards for a job well done.
Next, try setting goals with your kid. Tell them that if they talk to X number of kids by the end of the week – you’ll get them that toy they really want… or you’ll go to a movie… or get ice cream.
You know your kid – so pick a reward that’ll really make them eager
But the true reward is that they’ll make friends. And that cool toy will pale in comparison.
Important: If your kid does not reach the goal – have a conversation about it.
Here are two quick tips to help your shy kid open up.
1. Let them know it’s okay to be shy
Our society places a ton of value on being outgoing. It also places a lot of judgment on being shy.
Shy kids are often made even more shy because they feel like something is wrong with them.
So, the first step is to let your child know that it’s OKAY to be shy. Let them know nothing is wrong with them, and they’re fine the way they are.
Shyness is often linked with insecurity. So if your kid feels secure with him / herself – they’ll be one step closer to opening up.
2. Set Goals & Give them rewards for a job well done.
Next, try setting goals with your kid. Tell them that if they talk to X number of kids by the end of the week – you’ll get them that toy they really want… or you’ll go to a movie… or get ice cream.
You know your kid – so pick a reward that’ll really make them eager
But the true reward is that they’ll make friends. And that cool toy will pale in comparison.
Important: If your kid does not reach the goal – have a conversation about it.